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Inspired by a conversations with friends, i’ve always wondered why some straight guys dislike gay guys. They are borne gay and there is nothing they can do about it. The majority, if not all gays that I know and have met, are very happy with their gender. The only place where choice seems to come into play is when they decide how they will acknowledge their identity. Choosing if and how to 'come out' and choosing who to tell. I can only imagine how painful this must be, hiding who you are because you are afraid of being judged, abused rejected.
Of course there are all sorts of visceral reactions that straights have toward gays, the most obvious being the thought or heaven forbid the mental image of two guys doing it. But I think ignorance has a lot to do with it. The stereotypes that gay men will try to hit on or feel up every guy they come into contact with. And of course there are those who feel that their masculinity would be threatened and those who thinks it’s gross because they personally don't happen to like gay men.
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It doesn’t even make sense to me why some straight guys get angry when a gay guy hits on them. I mean if someone does hit on you, male or female, that you aren't sexually attracted to you should just give that person a polite, "no, thank you" and move on.
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