It is a poor idea to lie to yourself

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The worst lies are the ones we subconsciously tell ourselves.  They’ve been ingrained in our minds by bad external influences and negative thinking. It is a fact we all care about what people think of us. Mostly because whatever we decide to become in life, we are guided or misled by the groups we are to belong to, with requirements that have to be met in order to fit and be accepted in those groups.

If we are not happy with where we are in life, it’s better to change the situation before it becomes uncontrollable. Because what happens is that you spend a lot of time and effort trying to convince yourself that you are happy with your current situation, and yet you are sad and miserable when you are alone.