Siblings becoming enemies

I always hear my mom telling my brother and me how much she hates it when we argue. We always tell her to stay out of it, because it is between us and has nothing to do with her. Only after she explained to us, did we then understand why she hates it when we argue. She said the way my brother and I act and treat each other scars her, because it shows her that, this is how we would act should anything happen to her. The worse thing for her is watching her children become enemies and turn their backs on each other.

Andiswa Dlokolo